• If you are not enjoying the ride - Then get off the Bus!
  • by Prakash Iyer
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  • IF you find yourself stuck in a job you hate, and if wealth and fame look like distant dreams, you should hear the story of a woman called Gail Kelly. It’s quite a fascinating story.

    Gail is a 54-year old South African who has risen to become the CEO of Australia’s largest Bank – Westpac.  She is one of the wealthiest people in Australia today. But it wasn’t always like this.

    Born in 1956, Gail had an ordinary upbringing, culminating in a degree in Arts. At 21, she got married to her college sweetheart, and when his work took him away to Zimbabwe, she moved too. They came back a year later and Gail took up a job as a teacher in a government school.

    All she remembers from those days was the bunch of difficult students she had to manage. She vividly recalls getting angry with a kid who had left his jersey inside a sports room she had just locked up. “I felt ashamed of myself for screaming at the little kid.  I was allowing my unhappiness to affect who I was!”

    Next day, as she sat in the school bus, she wished the school didn’t exist. She hated the thought of going back to school. She decided she must do something. And she did.

    She got off the bus
    And that was the turning point in her life. She applied for and got a job as a teller in a bank. She did well, and soon got promoted into a role in HR. Some years later, at age 30, and pregnant with her first child, she enrolled for an MBA. After completing that, she went back to work for the same bank, and her career continued to zoom. She was soon pregnant again – and was surprised to discover that she was carrying triplets. Five months after the birth of her threesome, she was back at work. Back to doing what she enjoyed doing.

    To provide for a better future for their children, Gail and her husband decided to migrate to Australia – at the age of  41. She went to work for a bank there. And the rest as they say is history.

    Gail credits her success in life to a lot of things: Passion. Hard work. Her MBA degree. A supportive husband. Fabulous teams. But most of all, she knows that none of this would have been possible if she had not decided to quit her teaching job and ‘get off the bus’ that fateful day in South Africa.  Gail’s story could be yours too. Even a school teacher can become the CEO of the country’s largest bank. Just do what you enjoy. Work hard. Believe in yourself. And don’t allow excuses (no MBA, need to bring up kids, moving locations) to interfere with your progress.

    So what’s Gail’s message for her employees – and for all of us? It’s simple. If you are not enjoying the ride – get off the bus. There might be more fulfilling careers waiting for you.

    Too many of us spend all our lives in jobs we hate. We hate every minute of it, we complain, we show our bitterness, it affects our performance – and yet we don’t do anything to change things. We lack the courage to call it quits. We hesitate to get off the bus.

    Life is too short to be wasted doing things you don’t enjoy. Doing what you enjoy offers you your best chance of success. It also gives you the strength to overcome all odds – like it did with Gail. And it’s never, never too late to get off the bus!

    So if you are not enjoying what you are doing, do a Gail Kelly. Take the first step.

    Get off the bus!

    Prakash Iyer is MD, Kimberly-Clark Lever and Executive Coach.

    Post your queries and comments below this column, and Prakash will respond!

  • Published on: October 06, 2010
  • 19 Comments
  • Ramesh | May 16, 2011

  • Hello Mr. Iyer, I enjoyed reading this inspiring article. Have been contemplating a career change for a while, as I feel like a square peg in a round hole in my present job & career. While I am doing it just for a living, I have little passion or interest in my job which has become mundane and monotonous over time. I often feel that this is not the right career for me, as it doesn't bring out the best in me. Have taken the MBTI Tests too to figure out my true interests and skills. Strangely, it lists my current career as one of the ideal choices !!! Has left me confused. Seems at times it is better to stay on a bus which will take you somewhere, rather than get off and walk the same path.
  • Pravin | Nov 19, 2010

  • Hello Sir, I regularly read your articles from Carrers360.It's really boost for me every month.My humble suggestion to you and editorial team is to have it published as collection of articles.I strongly feel this insights has to be taught to the college students so that we have more time to try out things to get to know what makes one individual really happy. regards Pravin
  • Vijay Yagnik, NG-IITM | Nov 18, 2010

  • Sir, it really is a nice article. You have candidly balanced between the story and the message you want to convey. Thus you have made your message and teaching more effective. What I feel is that many times it becomes compulsory to pull on the family and low paying jobs may give you satisfaction, not money!
  • Hiren Shah | Nov 11, 2010

  • Very well written article and a good example. I have myself written over 22 published articles on the subject which have links to my blog Make your passion your profession- http://mypyp.wordpress.com/ . While I agree overall with what you say, it is not so busy for everybody to just quit and start afresh. In the US, there are career transition coaches which help in hand holding to those people who may not have the guts to make the leap for one reason or another. Over 15 career coaches have come together on a website called www.careershifters.org to tackle this problem in UK. There are similar sites in the US like www.passioncatalyst.com or www.vocationalcoach.com. Career transition should be a structured process in India as well but to the best of my knowledge, career coaching is totally absent. This is a specialized field and flash in the pan or sporadic successes do not really mean anything.
  • logo | Oct 22, 2010

  • Thanks for those insightful comments Jaspinder! Loved your 3-point test for any job: Learn, Contribute & Enjoy. And yes, important point you make about never taking a decision in the spur of the moment. Good to remember - if you jump off the bus in a hurry - you are sure to fall and get hurt!
  • Jaspinder Singh | Oct 21, 2010

  • Hi Prakash Great insight.I enjoy reading all your Article. I agree but would like to add 2 more factors in this. I feel there are three factors which are important in any job: 1. "Learn" -- As long as you are learning in any form one should continue.The day you think that there is no more learning left..... It is time to get off the bus. 2. "Contribute" -- The day one feels that i am not contributing to the current job........It is time to get off the bus. 3. "Enjoy" - The day one feels that i am not enjoying the job.........It is time to get off the bus. More important is that one needs to be sure of the findings. It cannot be a spur of a moment decision. This should be well thought of. Jaspinder
  • imran tamboli | Oct 20, 2010

  • very true said, i fully agree & also do carry the same thought process. one sholud never waste time in doing thins which do not bring any results to him. live life meaningfull, talk sence. do sence, do what ever in life just one should ensure his growth by end of the day, end of the year or when he turns back & see he should see some appreciation in his life, his growth.thats it,,,,,reagrds imran tamboli
  • imran tamboli | Oct 20, 2010

  • very true said, i fully agree & also do carry the same thought process. one sholud never waste time in doing thins which do not bring any results to him. live life meaningfull, talk sence. do sence, do what ever in life just one should ensure his growth by end of the day, end of the year or when he turns back & see he should see some appreciation in his life, his growth.thats it,,,,,reagrds imran tamboli
  • ansar ahmed | Oct 18, 2010

  • If you are not enjoying the ride - Then get off the Bus! Life is too short to be wasted doing things you don't enjoy. Doing what you enjoy offers you your best chance of SUCCESS!
  • Nimisha | Oct 15, 2010

  • I am doing bank coaching in bhopal from mahindra coching classes plz suggess me how can find sucess
  • logo | Oct 14, 2010

  • Hi Elroy! Good idea to take a piece of paper and put down exactly why you want to change, and what you want to do. Also, what's working and what's not - in your current position. That should help ensure you think clearly! A mistake to avoid is changing just because you don't like something (without being sure what exactly it is that you like!)From your brief message though, it does seem there is a fabulous trainer waiting to be unleashed. Go for it!
  • Michael | Oct 13, 2010

  • It's always nice to read sir Iyer's article. It really motivates me to think higher n much higher evry time i read his article. Thanks to Iyer Sir n the publication team. U guys r doing wonderful job.....
  • Pooja | Oct 11, 2010

  • Amazing as usual.... - ex-INFOMEDIAN
  • moshahid | Oct 08, 2010

  • Inspired a lot !
  • Mohammad Rafiq Wani,Pathan Pulwama | Oct 07, 2010

  • truly a great advice. thank u sir .
  • divita | Oct 07, 2010

  • a true inspiring story....n mam all d best
  • GANESH KAMATH | Oct 07, 2010

  • A NICE AND MOTIVATING STORY FOR THE PEOPLE...THANKS TO ALL THE PEOPLE WHO INCLUDED IT IN CURRENT ISSUE OF CAREERS 360. THANKS A TON!!
  • amit | Oct 06, 2010

  • Nice sir, realy great story of the lady who faced challanges ,but dil se.I am also going to start my own business , coaching center it is.will u guide me to get good start? thanks amit
  • elroy | Oct 04, 2010

  • Hi Prakash This article for absoloutely meant for me! I really need to get off the bus. Am in a job that is so boring and feel stuck. Not switching only because of the recession and the limited opportunities around. How do I move out of this situation? Take a break for sometime -up my training skills et al Want to get into Training have spent enough no of years in HR . Confused though Kindly advise Elroy
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