Hello aspirant,
Yes, dependents of Border Security Force (BSF) personnel are generally eligible for the Defense Quota in NEET counselling for Jammu and Kashmir.

The specific documents required might vary slightly, but generally, you would need the following:

1. NEET Scorecard: This is the primary document for admission to any medical college.
2. Domicile Certificate: You or your parent should be a domicile of Jammu and Kashmir to be eligible for the state quota.
3. Defense Quota Certificate: This certificate is issued by the concerned defense authority and verifies the relationship of the candidate with the defense personnel.
4. Identity Proof: Aadhaar card, PAN card, or any other government-issued ID.
5. Date of Birth Certificate: Birth certificate or class 10th certificate.
6. Category Certificate (if applicable): If you belong to a reserved category, you will need the necessary certificate.
7. Passport-sized Photographs: As required by the counselling authority.
   
   I hope this information helps.