mai apne papa sai bhaout derta hu himmat nhi hoti apni baate manane ki .... mera bachpan sai cricketer banne ka sapna raha hai jo shuru kerna to durr kabhi dekhne bhi nhi diya ....bolte hai issmai paisa bhaout hai aur iit ka liay after 10 sai force ker raha hai mera mann nhi hai kerne ka iit . help!

Hi Gourav,

I can feel the coherence with your situation. At this time you and your father are both correct in your respective ideologies. As a father he wants you to see earning well so that you can afford a life which may be better than what he can give to you whereas you are also right with your wish to follow your passion. But it all concludes with you being happy. This may sound a bit harsh but it is your father's money. He has full right to invest where ever he wants. Coming to your passion, you will be happier when you invest your own money for it than someone else's. Sometimes it is better to be late than being sorry. In a heat of moment don't say or do anything for which you have to repent lifelong. When the reins of life starts cutting into your flesh it is better to loosen your grip and it is this time when you should do so and let the life take its own course. Once you start earning only you will be the one who decide how much to spend, how much to save. If you do not wish to join coaching then tell him that you are not sure about being able to handle both school and coaching at a time and don't want to cause unnecessary monetary loss.  Discuss with him various free or less expensive online alternative for regular coaching.Please take at least this much stand for yourself without being afraid.