i am 16. my father is not allowing to take decisions on my own.he says that up till my 30 years, i am in his control. of course i don't mean that "it's my life, my choice", but he is like too much. each and every decision is done by him, from studies to anything. he doesn't even care about my feelin

Hello,

You should understand that your parents do mean well for you. But this should not mean that you do everything they tell if it makes you unhappy.

You should try talking to your father about your decisions and what you would like to do in the future. Try talking to your mother and maybe she can help you out in talking to him. Tell him that so an so would make you happy instead of the option that your father has offered you.

Give him some examples of where you have taken a decision and it has turned out to be good. You can ask your your fathers siblings or your grandparents to talk to your father and make him understand that you would like to make major decisions based on what you like and tell him that you do not want a chance to regret later.

But be sure that once he gives you the permission that you do not let him down and work hard and make him proud.

Good Luck