If I have passed 12th STD but im not qualified for neet can I give nios on demand process? This will not be considered as my 2nd attempt?

Hell student yes it'll be your second attempt as per source YES, according to the recent update,NIOS studentiseligibleto giveNEET. Candidates who have not gone under classroom training areeligible for NEET(UG) asNIOSis a recognized qualification. Since the candidate can give the National Entrance cumEligibilityTest, they can pursue MBBS in India and abroad.

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