Ytdy i went to function all my childhood family frds were there with whom i travelled alot with family but the thing is all are well settled 2 are Ca one dr. one IiTian and i am zero crying at age 21 doing part time job nothing esle all won and seriously in dreams also i was they came. i am failure

hello aspirant,

You are never a loser.comparing your life at some others will always seem like that.be thankful that you are doing a part time,but dont be settled for that.you are just 21 and theres a lot more to do lot more to explore.and trust me if you arent an iitian you arent a failure and all iitians are not succesful.it depends on your talents which you dont know are within you.yes your parents raised you well and sent to best school its okay you are just 21 and dont consider failing in an exam is failure for life.look around so many succesful people ,ceos,entruprenues,etc arent iitians infact are not even graduates.try to trust your self.theres so much power within you which you are not aware of yet.start to observe yourself,slowly stop comparing,read books trust me reading self growth books are the best it helps you so much!read inspirational biographies.first of all stop comparing and dont poison your own life.everybody will do that why are you doing that to your self.i insist you to read few of the very life changing books which will help you become so much better(dont judge a book by its cover):

1.the power of subconcious mind

2.letting go

hope this helps,

thankyou.

Hello there,

First of all let me tell you that, you are not a failure. Don't see others, what they are doing. See just what you are doing now. If you are doing some part-time job, then don't be worry. First of all, see the thing where you find yourself the best. And start doing that thing. Surely you will get success one day. Take the part-time job sidewise, and start doing something that soothes you. Below, I am mentioning some quotes, might they build some confidence into you.

" Winners are not those who will never fail, but people who will never QUIT"

"Practice Makes a man perfect"

"What you get is totally depends on what work/effects you had done to get it"

Also, you can start reading some top motivational books. This will helps you a lot.

Hope this helps you.